When we do something for someone else, but that person doesn’t appreciate what we do, for some people it might be painful, maybe it can make people angry and upset. When we are too hopeful to get appreciation for what we have done, then when we don’t get it, finally we only get pain. On the contrary, when we get appreciation for what we have done, we will get a satisfaction and pleasure. Everyone has experienced these 2 things. But, in my opinion we don’t need to think about it, we don’t need to hope to get an award, we don’t need to be sad when we are not valued by others, we don’t need to be angry when other people don’t care about what we have made or what we have do it. We only need to control our mind well and be grateful that we have done something well and maximally.
When people don’t respect us, i think we only need to smile, it doesn’t mean we are happy when it’s not appreciated by others, it means we have a very strong mental and heart. It doesn’t matter if other people do not respect us, do not respect our efforts, do not respect what we have done, do not respect what we have made, it is not a problem, because I don’t want that, and I don’t care. when I do a job, then I will do it maximally and earnestly, appreciated or not, I really don’t care. For me,When I doesn’t appreciated? I will smile because at least i have once respected other people.
” Some Won’t Appreciate You No Matter How Much You Do For Them. Release Yourself. Go Where You’re Appreciated And Understood”
I just need to be grateful for what I have today, even though what I was waiting for never came, what I had fought for had not achieved results and everything that I expected never happened, I did not worry or complain about that. I just have to stay strong and thanks to God because I can still survive and fight until now. I have never complained about what has happened in the past and what has happened at this time, if that has happened, then let it happen. The world is too beautiful if we are always ignore it.
Life is “now”, I did not live in the past, so I will never complain about what happened.
I am grateful for what I have today. I will continue to look for beautiful things in this world, keep running and keep struggling to find happiness. Nothing can make me happy then me, I think the sky still blue and the sun is still shining brightly, so there is no reason for me to complain about the situation.
“If we complain about our lives at the moment, it means we have injured people out there who are still struggling in difficult circumstances”
Many people assume that busyness is something that boast and look cool. We are always busy with our organization, we organize for all activities in the organization to run well, we always think to advance this organization, and we are very concerned with it. We often come home with a very tired face, maybe our family and parents are proud of it. We have a lot of important schedules, meet important figures, we have an agenda that contains a lot of activities and that is an activity we have to do for the organization. You often go home and go straight to catch deadlines and tasks that need to be solved soon, but you often forget and even rarely to smile for your family and mother, I think our family missed you so much and eager to hear all the activities you did today and make sure you’re fine, but we often do not care about that and keep busy with the organization.
I think the organization is important, but we also have to think and care about the people who love us and the people we care about.
Are you worried about your mother and your family as you are worried about the success of your show?
When was the last time you asked about the situation of your younger sister and brother?
Whether your sister and brother are no more important than your organization! Do you care about your family like you care about your organization? Do you think organization is more important than your family?
I think we should think about it. I have some questions for you who are very busy in your organization Where is your professionalism for your family? where you put your family on your priority scale? whether the time you have is too expensive and your own family can not buy it. Every meeting will definitely find results. I hope we can be wiser in life.
” Family Is Not An Important Thing. But It’s EVERYTHING “
Many people change personalities into different people for a reason. We see other people have something more and we try to be that person so that we can be appreciated by others. I think that’s a bad thing to do. Just be yourself despite the many temptations in the world that make us to be a different people. Many things in the world that can affect us to be different people or not be yourself, I think we should fight it and remain to be ourselves. look at the rich people, we also want to look rich, but actually we do not have anything. seeing people who have a luxurious and glamorous life, we also want to be like that and we are prestige if we can not live like others, we try to be different people because we are not confident and embarrassed by what we have.
Why all of the people so hard to be ourselves? Why? Just be yourself,I think it’s a simple to do, don’t think about other people, do what we want to do, look at all the things we want to see, be grateful for what we have today, think the road to our own success and future, and do not ruin and destroy our lives just because we become different people and not be ourselves. I will live in my own way, I will not be ashamed and I will achieve my success by being myself. The most important thing in my opinion is to be myself even though many things in this world are tempting and make me become a different person.
” It’s Not Your Job To Be Likable, It’s Your Job To Be Yourself “
Many events in this life, maybe not all things we can remember, everyone must have felt a happy life and everyone also must have experienced a difficult life.I like to write something that happens in my life, I just write, I think by writing I can tell all that I feel, I feel free and comfortable with it.Writing gives me serenity.Everything I feel, all the problems, all the grief and all the pain I feel I just write, write and write, just write it.
Sometimes I think …. “I don’t know what . I don’t know why I write. I just write something what i feel ” And then slowly, through the words, something emerges and emotional. I write to feel the thrill and excitement and possibility: as I lose all sense of no, stopping and sitting and forgetting everything but the writing.
” I Write To Give Myself Strength. I Write To Be The Characters That I Am Not. I Write To Explore All The Things I’m Afraid Of “
Look around, see what we want to see, no one will ever ban it. Wherever we go, wherever we live, we should not be afraid, because we are not the only ones. Do not let the day pass in doubt, do not let the time end in doubt and do not let a single day end with sadness and regret. Life is short, maybe we should learn from mistakes that have happened in the past and remain confident with the choices and the path we have chosen.
I will face it with my eyes open.I know and I’m sure I have a future that is on my side, I’ll be fine, I know what I choose and I also know what I do, I know how difficult the path I will go through and I’m sure I will shine in his time .
” I’m Choosing Happiness Over Suffering, I Know I Am. I’m Making Space For The Unknown Future To Fill Up My Life With Yet To Come Surprises “
I think, there really is no pain in this world, no suffering in the world, we can always live happily, the way is do not let the pain hurt us, essentially do not give permission for it. We can live freely, do what we want, do something we think is right. When many people hurt me, blaspheme, hate me, I do not care about it, and I will not allow it to hurt me, I will never allow it. Not everyone knows the meaning of everything we do, if someone hurt us, then that’s where we have to choose, whether we will give permission or not for it to hurt us. If we always allow pain to hurt us then that comes only sadness, depression, stress and problems that never end.
I do not care what other people say about me, because I know how I am not someone else.No one can hurt me without my permission.One thing that can hurt me is when I can not make my parents happy and I can not protect my family.
” A Positive Attitude Can Realy Make Dreams Come True – It Did For Me “