When we do something for someone else, but that person doesn’t appreciate what we do, for some people it might be painful, maybe it can make people angry and upset. When we are too hopeful to get appreciation for what we have done, then when we don’t get it, finally we only get pain. On the contrary, when we get appreciation for what we have done, we will get a satisfaction and pleasure. Everyone has experienced these 2 things. But, in my opinion we don’t need to think about it, we don’t need to hope to get an award, we don’t need to be sad when we are not valued by others, we don’t need to be angry when other people don’t care about what we have made or what we have do it. We only need to control our mind well and be grateful that we have done something well and maximally.
When people don’t respect us, i think we only need to smile, it doesn’t mean we are happy when it’s not appreciated by others, it means we have a very strong mental and heart. It doesn’t matter if other people do not respect us, do not respect our efforts, do not respect what we have done, do not respect what we have made, it is not a problem, because I don’t want that, and I don’t care. when I do a job, then I will do it maximally and earnestly, appreciated or not, I really don’t care. For me, When I doesn’t appreciated? I will smile because at least i have once respected other people.
” Some Won’t Appreciate You No Matter How Much You Do For Them. Release Yourself. Go Where You’re Appreciated And Understood”
– ROBERT TEW –