Don’t be jealous, we have our own loneliness, if people’s lives seem lively, it’s because of the loneliness that is celebrated in luxury. If people’s lives seem ordinary, it means that loneliness is celebrated in a simple way. Everyone has feelings that them controls, I’m sure about that. All things have their own beauty but maybe not everyone can see and feel it. I have never looked down on or underestimated what I consider less beautiful. What I see as less beautiful can be a beauty in the eyes of others. I realize everyone will always have their own point of view in seeing things. When we feel lonely and alone, it does not mean we do not have many friends, it does not mean we do not have beautiful things in life, it does not mean we have to be sad and jealous of others, but… we are in a condition to get to know ourselves better.
I once felt lonely and alone, no one cared, maybe no one knew, no one came to accompany me. At that time my friend was only one, that was me, with a gray and uncertain purpose. Actually we will never feel lonely and alone in this life, we have ourselves, we have our own feelings, we have our own thoughts. Do what we want to do, exercise, morning run, eat, watch movies, listen to music, sleep, read books, mediate, and other things. Just relax and enjoy life because the best you’ll ever do is to understand yourself, know what it is that you want, and not let the cattle stand in your way. I hope you all agree with me.
“So many people are shut up tight inside themselves like boxes, yet they would open up, unfolding quite wonderfully, if only you were interested in them.”
– SILVYA PLATH –
My mind began to feel tired, but my heart can always argue that. My mind started to get stuck, but my heart always accompanies me. My mind is getting lazy, but instead my heart churned. My mind began to feel empty, but my heart is always ready to fill it. My mind began to not care about anything, but again and again my heart always says “don’t go, just stay”. Feelings are always in the front lines and love always wins first, before the disappointment that came crashing. I will let things go as they are, pass properly and end as they should be. My dilemma is that i hate change and love it at the same time what i really want is for things to remain the same but get better. I think people crave those meaningful situations, like stuff about faith, identity, romance, work, anf dilemmas of live paradoxes in our souls. It’s going back to a time where lives were really defined by history, and also how you behave in the face of history. It’s kind of interesting to go back to that simpler humanity, simpler but deeper. To me, one of the things i strive for is realism. I need to be as real as possible in the dilemmas my characters face.
“Stories are told not to preach or counsel people but to reflect the dilemmas of our time”
– SOBHITA DHULIPALA –
Everyone has their own story, maybe for some people, they want to share their stories and some people might not. I have to realize that I can’t control other people, I will never know what other people think, and I will never know what people will do to me, all I know is that I have done with good things for myself. Some people easily judge something, some people are also easy to hate something, they do that because they not fully understood. Sometimes I can look like very bad to other people, sometimes I can look like a fool person in the eyes of others and sometimes I can look like very useless by others and I think that is not a problem. People may say we are ugly, useless, stupid, poor, etc. What should we do about that?, I think what we have to do is ask ourselves, is that right? they don’t know me more deeply, they also don’t know me fully and I think they are also innocent, because everyone sometimes quickly evaluates things without wanting to find out more, and sometimes I do that, but I will change. Yeah, WE’RE ALL BAD IN SOMEONE’S STORY BUT NOT WITH OUR OWN STORY.
“I don’t know how my story will be in the future and I also never want to know about it, the important thing is how to live my story well.“
– Alif Satria –
Many people assume that busyness is something that boast and look cool. We are always busy with our organization, we organize for all activities in the organization to run well, we always think to advance this organization, and we are very concerned with it. We often come home with a very tired face, maybe our family and parents are proud of it. We have a lot of important schedules, meet important figures, we have an agenda that contains a lot of activities and that is an activity we have to do for the organization. You often go home and go straight to catch deadlines and tasks that need to be solved soon, but you often forget and even rarely to smile for your family and mother, I think our family missed you so much and eager to hear all the activities you did today and make sure you’re fine, but we often do not care about that and keep busy with the organization.
I think the organization is important, but we also have to think and care about the people who love us and the people we care about.
Are you worried about your mother and your family as you are worried about the success of your show?
When was the last time you asked about the situation of your younger sister and brother?
Whether your sister and brother are no more important than your organization! Do you care about your family like you care about your organization? Do you think organization is more important than your family?
I think we should think about it.
I have some questions for you who are very busy in your organization
Where is your professionalism for your family?
where you put your family on your priority scale?
whether the time you have is too expensive and your own family can not buy it.
Every meeting will definitely find results. I hope we can be wiser in life.
” Family Is Not An Important Thing. But It’s EVERYTHING “
– MICHAEL J. FOX –
Many events in this life, maybe not all things we can remember, everyone must have felt a happy life and everyone also must have experienced a difficult life. I like to write something that happens in my life, I just write, I think by writing I can tell all that I feel, I feel free and comfortable with it. Writing gives me serenity. Everything I feel, all the problems, all the grief and all the pain I feel I just write, write and write, just write it.
Sometimes I think …. “I don’t know what . I don’t know why I write. I just write something what i feel ” And then slowly, through the words, something emerges and emotional. I write to feel the thrill and excitement and possibility: as I lose all sense of no, stopping and sitting and forgetting everything but the writing.
” I Write To Give Myself Strength. I Write To Be The Characters That I Am Not. I Write To Explore All The Things I’m Afraid Of “
– JOSS WHEDON –
Look around, see what we want to see, no one will ever ban it. Wherever we go, wherever we live, we should not be afraid, because we are not the only ones. Do not let the day pass in doubt, do not let the time end in doubt and do not let a single day end with sadness and regret. Life is short, maybe we should learn from mistakes that have happened in the past and remain confident with the choices and the path we have chosen.
I will face it with my eyes open. I know and I’m sure I have a future that is on my side, I’ll be fine, I know what I choose and I also know what I do, I know how difficult the path I will go through and I’m sure I will shine in his time .
” I’m Choosing Happiness Over Suffering, I Know I Am. I’m Making Space For The Unknown Future To Fill Up My Life With Yet To Come Surprises “
– ELIZABETH GILBERT –
I think, there really is no pain in this world, no suffering in the world, we can always live happily, the way is do not let the pain hurt us, essentially do not give permission for it. We can live freely, do what we want, do something we think is right. When many people hurt me, blaspheme, hate me, I do not care about it, and I will not allow it to hurt me, I will never allow it. Not everyone knows the meaning of everything we do, if someone hurt us, then that’s where we have to choose, whether we will give permission or not for it to hurt us. If we always allow pain to hurt us then that comes only sadness, depression, stress and problems that never end.
I do not care what other people say about me, because I know how I am not someone else. No one can hurt me without my permission. One thing that can hurt me is when I can not make my parents happy and I can not protect my family.
” A Positive Attitude Can Realy Make Dreams Come True – It Did For Me “
– DAVID BAILEY –