We Have Our Own Loneliness

Don’t be jealous, we have our own loneliness, if people’s lives seem lively, it’s because of the loneliness that is celebrated in luxury. If people’s lives seem ordinary, it means that loneliness is celebrated in a simple way. Everyone has feelings that them controls, I’m sure about that. All things have their own beauty but maybe not everyone can see and feel it. I have never looked down on or underestimated what I consider less beautiful. What I see as less beautiful can be a beauty in the eyes of others. I realize everyone will always have their own point of view in seeing things. When we feel lonely and alone, it does not mean we do not have many friends, it does not mean we do not have beautiful things in life, it does not mean we have to be sad and jealous of others, but… we are in a condition to get to know ourselves better.

I once felt lonely and alone, no one cared, maybe no one knew, no one came to accompany me. At that time my friend was only one, that was me, with a gray and uncertain purpose. Actually we will never feel lonely and alone in this life, we have ourselves, we have our own feelings, we have our own thoughts. Do what we want to do, exercise, morning run, eat, watch movies, listen to music, sleep, read books, mediate, and other things. Just relax and enjoy life because the best you’ll ever do is to understand yourself, know what it is that you want, and not let the cattle stand in your way. I hope you all agree with me.

 

“So many people are shut up tight inside themselves like boxes, yet they would open up, unfolding quite wonderfully, if only you were interested in them.”

– SILVYA PLATH –

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Dilemma

My mind began to feel tired, but my heart can always argue that. My mind started to get stuck, but my heart always accompanies me. My mind is getting lazy, but instead my heart churned. My mind began to feel empty, but my heart is always ready to fill it. My mind began to not care about anything, but again and again my heart always says “don’t go, just stay”. Feelings are always in the front lines and love always wins first, before the disappointment that came crashing. I will let things go as they are, pass properly and end as they should be. My dilemma is that i hate change and love it at the same time what i really want is for things to remain the same but get better. I think people crave those meaningful situations, like stuff about faith, identity, romance, work, anf dilemmas of live paradoxes in our souls. It’s going back to a time where lives were really defined by history, and also how you behave in the face of history. It’s kind of interesting to go back to that simpler humanity, simpler but deeper. To me, one of the things i strive for is realism. I need to be as real as possible in the dilemmas my characters face.

 

“Stories are told not to preach or counsel people but to reflect the dilemmas of our time”

– SOBHITA DHULIPALA –

 

If All Our Wishes Come True, Where Will We Learn To Be Patient?

Some people in this world maybe every time they want something, the next day they get it. and some people don’t get everything they want. Sometimes we don’t get everything we want, but it’s actually a good thing, if all our desires come true, then where will we learn to be patient? where will we learn not to give up? where will we learn about a struggle? where will we learn about spirit? and where we will learn to work hard with purpose and something we want.

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therefore we must learn to be patient and learn to never give up in achieving what we want. we also get lessons on how to stay close to God, hard work and never give up.
I will not be sad when I do not get what I want, I will never be angry about it. what I do is look at the sky and say to myself “my efforts are still lacking to get it, so don’t be sad for something we don’t fight to the maximum, so what are you waiting for, fight again !!!”
“There Is Something Good In All Seeming Failures. You Are Not To See That Now. Time Will Reveal It. Be Patient”
– SIVANANDA SARASWATI –

Human Being

Is there anything more confusing than humans?
They live by forgetting history, even though history makes them grow, they always worry about the future, so they sacrifice the present, they want to sacrifice their health for money, then they sacrifice their money for health. Those who become rulers always say Fight for their people, Even though the people continue to believe and wait until death. They always want to be cared for by others, but they are rarely and never care about others. They live life As if they will never die, then they die without really enjoying life.

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This is indeed confusing, people often do it without them knowing it. I will continue to strive to be a truly human person. being truly human is sometimes difficult, because we don’t have the measurement power, but try to be human as real humans are.

” Wherever there is a human being, there is an opportunity for a kindness ”

– LUCIUS ANNAEUS SENECA –

 

Sky Still Blue And The Sun Still Shining

I just need to be grateful for what I have today, even though what I was waiting for never came, what I had fought for had not achieved results and everything that I expected never happened, I did not worry or complain about that. I just have to stay strong and thanks to God because I can still survive and fight until now. I have never complained about what has happened in the past and what has happened at this time, if that has happened, then let it happen. The world is too beautiful if we are always ignore it.

Life is “now”, I did not live in the past, so I will never complain about what happened.

I am grateful for what I have today. I will continue to look for beautiful things in this world, keep running and keep struggling to find happiness. Nothing can make me happy then me, I think the sky still blue and the sun is still shining brightly, so there is no reason for me to complain about the situation.

“If we complain about our lives at the moment, it means we have injured people out there who are still struggling in difficult circumstances”

– Original By Writer –

HOPE For Tomorrow

A hope of could be something that motivates and could also be a load. when parents and family have always supported us to be successful, it is a big hope given them to us. Sometimes I’m scared into thinking that all is a burden that must be tasted. I ever cry when I think of struggle and sacrifices that have been given by parents to me. I kept thinking if I could make that hope becomes a happiness for parents and my family. Attention and affection they give to me, the concern that always they gave, I only fear can not reply to all of it.

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I want to be someone who can make parents and my family happy. I just wanted it. all the attention, all the passion, all the support, all the prayers and all the hopes that parents and my family gave, I promised to make all of it becomes a happiness. Will be a lot of pain that I feel, will be a lot of barriers that I face, but it did not matter because I had promised and did not make all the hopes that have parents and family gave to me to be in vain. I’m sure tomorrow I’ll be the one they want and I’ll give happiness to them.

 

” Hope Is A Waking Dream “

– ARISTOTLE –

 

Don’t Start A Fight If You Can’t End It

Do something that we can not finish, do not do it, it was very detrimental to ourselves and also harm others. sometimes we do not think before doing something, we are always in a hurry to do something, we do not think about how we finish it. We often start a problem that we can not solve. It’s better to fight Because if you do not fight, you can not win. Is not it better if we do not start a fight, and think clearly, do not start a fight if you can not end it.

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We often do things that are not important, we are doing something we do not know how it ended, we just do it, but do not think first. Do not swim if we could not swim, but learn to swim so we could swim. Sometimes we force ourselves to do something we already know that it will be painful for us. Try to think before starting anything, because every action that we will do will make us happy and also painful. Do something that can be resolved well and thinking and learning to accomplish something that has not been able to solve.

” A King Can Stand People’s Fighting But He Can’t Last Long If People Start Thinking “

– WILL ROGERS –