We Have Our Own Loneliness

Don’t be jealous, we have our own loneliness, if people’s lives seem lively, it’s because of the loneliness that is celebrated in luxury. If people’s lives seem ordinary, it means that loneliness is celebrated in a simple way. Everyone has feelings that them controls, I’m sure about that. All things have their own beauty but maybe not everyone can see and feel it. I have never looked down on or underestimated what I consider less beautiful. What I see as less beautiful can be a beauty in the eyes of others. I realize everyone will always have their own point of view in seeing things. When we feel lonely and alone, it does not mean we do not have many friends, it does not mean we do not have beautiful things in life, it does not mean we have to be sad and jealous of others, but… we are in a condition to get to know ourselves better.

I once felt lonely and alone, no one cared, maybe no one knew, no one came to accompany me. At that time my friend was only one, that was me, with a gray and uncertain purpose. Actually we will never feel lonely and alone in this life, we have ourselves, we have our own feelings, we have our own thoughts. Do what we want to do, exercise, morning run, eat, watch movies, listen to music, sleep, read books, mediate, and other things. Just relax and enjoy life because the best you’ll ever do is to understand yourself, know what it is that you want, and not let the cattle stand in your way. I hope you all agree with me.

 

“So many people are shut up tight inside themselves like boxes, yet they would open up, unfolding quite wonderfully, if only you were interested in them.”

– SILVYA PLATH –

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If All Our Wishes Come True, Where Will We Learn To Be Patient?

Some people in this world maybe every time they want something, the next day they get it. and some people don’t get everything they want. Sometimes we don’t get everything we want, but it’s actually a good thing, if all our desires come true, then where will we learn to be patient? where will we learn not to give up? where will we learn about a struggle? where will we learn about spirit? and where we will learn to work hard with purpose and something we want.

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therefore we must learn to be patient and learn to never give up in achieving what we want. we also get lessons on how to stay close to God, hard work and never give up.
I will not be sad when I do not get what I want, I will never be angry about it. what I do is look at the sky and say to myself “my efforts are still lacking to get it, so don’t be sad for something we don’t fight to the maximum, so what are you waiting for, fight again !!!”
“There Is Something Good In All Seeming Failures. You Are Not To See That Now. Time Will Reveal It. Be Patient”
– SIVANANDA SARASWATI –

Not Appreciated? At Least We Have Once Respected Other People

When we do something for someone else, but that person doesn’t appreciate what we do, for some people it might be painful, maybe it can make people angry and upset. When we are too hopeful to get appreciation for what we have done, then when we don’t get it, finally we only get pain. On the contrary, when we get appreciation for what we have done, we will get a satisfaction and pleasure. Everyone has experienced these 2 things. But, in my opinion we don’t need to think about it, we don’t need to hope to get an award, we don’t need to be sad when we are not valued by others, we don’t need to be angry when other people don’t care about what we have made or what we have do it. We only need to control our mind well and be grateful that we have done something well and maximally.

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When people don’t respect us, i think we only need to smile, it doesn’t mean we are happy when it’s not appreciated by others, it means we have a very strong mental and heart. It doesn’t matter if other people do not respect us, do not respect our efforts, do not respect what we have done, do not respect what we have made, it is not a problem, because I don’t want that, and I don’t care. when I do a job, then I will do it maximally and earnestly, appreciated or not, I really don’t care. For me, When I doesn’t appreciated? I will smile because at least i have once respected other people.

 

” Some Won’t Appreciate You No Matter How Much You Do For Them. Release Yourself. Go Where You’re Appreciated And Understood”

– ROBERT TEW –

Sky Still Blue And The Sun Still Shining

I just need to be grateful for what I have today, even though what I was waiting for never came, what I had fought for had not achieved results and everything that I expected never happened, I did not worry or complain about that. I just have to stay strong and thanks to God because I can still survive and fight until now. I have never complained about what has happened in the past and what has happened at this time, if that has happened, then let it happen. The world is too beautiful if we are always ignore it.

Life is “now”, I did not live in the past, so I will never complain about what happened.

I am grateful for what I have today. I will continue to look for beautiful things in this world, keep running and keep struggling to find happiness. Nothing can make me happy then me, I think the sky still blue and the sun is still shining brightly, so there is no reason for me to complain about the situation.

“If we complain about our lives at the moment, it means we have injured people out there who are still struggling in difficult circumstances”

– Original By Writer –

Nobody Can Hurt Me Without My Permission

I think, there really is no pain in this world, no suffering in the world, we can always live happily, the way is do not let the pain hurt us, essentially do not give permission for it. We can live freely, do what we want, do something we think is right. When many people hurt me, blaspheme, hate me, I do not care about it, and I will not allow it to hurt me, I will never allow it. Not everyone knows the meaning of everything we do, if someone hurt us, then that’s where we have to choose, whether we will give permission or not for it to hurt us. If we always allow pain to hurt us then that comes only sadness, depression, stress and problems that never end.

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I do not care what other people say about me, because I know how I am not someone else. No one can hurt me without my permission. One thing that can hurt me is when I can not make my parents happy and I can not protect my family.

 

” A Positive Attitude Can Realy Make Dreams Come True – It Did For Me “

 – DAVID BAILEY –

The Pain In The Past Will Never Disappear

Hurt and pain that we feel will never disappear, we just have to make room for it. all that has happened sometimes it is something we do not understand. I’m sure everyone who has ever felt the pain and sorrow, they will continue to remind. All that has happened it is very difficult to forget. Many people have said, we must forget the past and had to keep move forward, but I think it’s not entirely true, because something has happened in the past, all the feelings we get about the past, and all the good and bad things that we feel, all it is will never be forgotten, all that has been written in the book of our lives each.

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We should not forget the pain that has happened in the past, we have to do is make a room in our hearts for it and close the door. all that pain is part of our feelings in the past, and we will never forget it.

 

” Pain That Has Happened In The Past It Will Never Disappear, But We Can Make A Small Room In Our Hearts For It And Close The Door

– LAURIE HOLDEN –