Some people in this world maybe every time they want something, the next day they get it. and some people don’t get everything they want. Sometimes we don’t get everything we want, but it’s actually a good thing, if all our desires come true, then where will we learn to be patient? where will we learn not to give up? where will we learn about a struggle? where will we learn about spirit? and where we will learn to work hard with purpose and something we want.
When we do something for someone else, but that person doesn’t appreciate what we do, for some people it might be painful, maybe it can make people angry and upset. When we are too hopeful to get appreciation for what we have done, then when we don’t get it, finally we only get pain. On the contrary, when we get appreciation for what we have done, we will get a satisfaction and pleasure. Everyone has experienced these 2 things. But, in my opinion we don’t need to think about it, we don’t need to hope to get an award, we don’t need to be sad when we are not valued by others, we don’t need to be angry when other people don’t care about what we have made or what we have do it. We only need to control our mind well and be grateful that we have done something well and maximally.
When people don’t respect us, i think we only need to smile, it doesn’t mean we are happy when it’s not appreciated by others, it means we have a very strong mental and heart. It doesn’t matter if other people do not respect us, do not respect our efforts, do not respect what we have done, do not respect what we have made, it is not a problem, because I don’t want that, and I don’t care. when I do a job, then I will do it maximally and earnestly, appreciated or not, I really don’t care. For me, When I doesn’t appreciated? I will smile because at least i have once respected other people.
” Some Won’t Appreciate You No Matter How Much You Do For Them. Release Yourself. Go Where You’re Appreciated And Understood”
– ROBERT TEW –
Memories is an event yesterday, which we still think and hard to forget until now. Memories came when we were not with him anymore. Every event we passed, only became an event. All of that will be a memory when all was lost and gone from us. When all has become memories then we will get a value from it. We can only remember the memories and make them become a new hope and do well for it.
Let all that has happened to be a memorable, do not dissolve in the memories, do not let the memories make us weak, do not let the memories that stop our steps forward. Each person must have a very precious memories and hard to forget, we must always remember memories, but we also have to take the value of those memories, because if we have discovered the value of an event, then the event will be a distant memory.
” A Memory Is What Is Left When Something Happens And Does Not Completely Unhappen “
– EDWARD DE BONO –